Why don't people like to receive messages like "Are you there?"

This article was written on another website before, and I feel it is necessary to go here!

Are you there?

The intention was that I wanted to chat with you, but I didn't know if you were free, so I asked politely,"Are you there?"

But why don't a lot of people like to get the message "is there" these days.

This situation is often caused by friends with average relationships, classmates and colleagues who have not contacted you all year round, suddenly contacting you for the purpose of asking for your help. Many times, this kind of news is often accompanied by borrowing money, sales promotion and other postings.

Generally speaking, many people don't like this kind of news, not that they are unwilling to help, but that this attitude of "contacting only when there is something" is really annoying.

I often encounter people asking me "Are you there?"

I replied "Yes".

Then he was gone again...

I waited for dozens of minutes before he sent a message. Are you free now?

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All in all, in the future, there will be only one sentence: if you don't say anything, I can't decide whether I am here or not.

Do you agree with this view?